An Ode To Myself

My male action plan

To be honest, I dont really know why Im writing this post right now. I don’t care about making money on this platform, but I just want to build a community of like minded individuals. Individuals who own their shit even if it stinks. Men who want to delve deep into relationship dynamics and want to unplug. I’m no expert at all, but I just want to highlight my successes and failures on a platform anonymously.

There’s a point in every man’s life where he finds out his covert contracts with himself and his family and friends are not yielding results. I also realized that I have been running from dating and using buffers to avoid putting myself out there because of the fear of rejection and pain. But I realized that I rather deal with moments of suffering than live a life of regret and should haves. I have been putting my MCAT studying on the back burner, wishing I will magically switch on my motivation to finally sit down to take the exam.

But in all reality, Im just bullshitting myself and not owning my shit. I’m just waiting for life to happen to me instead of taking action to improve it. I’m tired of hoping for one day, I can magically create a future that I truly want without actually putting the effort. My laziness telling me that tomorrow will give me what I want. But I need to stop bullshitting myself and start paving my future. I need to stop being the nice guy, the guy that just waits for life to get good, the guy that does not take ownership for his life. The guy that tells himself tomorrow will come and the hard work will eventually be done. But I’m only lying to myself and just patting myself in the back for my analysis paralysis.

So as to finally get my head out of my ass, I will document my journey through self improvement and just showing the raw truth and work needed to achieve what I want. I believe this to be a journal of some sort. But I want this as a journal and project that any new generation of men can look back on and see for themselves. For the older men who are stuck in life, I want to motivate others to own their shit. I won’t give you any BS formula or cheat codes. I tried many times to get the right book, the right plan, but its all BS. In order to do that, I will devise my male action plan and keep regular updates on this blog in order to stay accountable of my progress. This is just a testament to my will and wanting to leave something behind in life away from the glam and fakeness of social media.

Now that I gave that three paragraph word salad, I want to start with my Male action plan.

I borrowed this male action plan from the TRP space on reddit, so I want to give them a shout out to those guys. I made a rough outline of my aspirations and broke them down into different categories I needed work in. They consist of Mindset, Finances, Physique goals, Social skills, Career goals, and I even added the TRP as another category. So in order to make this even more efficient, I further broke down my aspirations and made them into actionable goals.

I made a list of aspirations I wanted to work on, on the left side and added some actionable goals in order to drive forward development in that area. Again, I’m looking for progress not perfection.

I also added the TRP sidebar and some books to focus on. I’m dedicating time to fulfilling some of the actionable goals and will be giving frequent updates each week in order to stay accountable. Here’s to a good journey and may it be a meaningful one.